
For generations, children learned essential life skills through free, self-directed play — exploring their world, solving problems, and growing in independence. Today, much of that freedom has disappeared.
In this episode of Raise Them Up, Fred Zielonko welcomes Dr. Peter Gray, research professor and evolutionary psychologist, to discuss why play is not a luxury for children — it’s a necessity. Drawing on decades of research, Dr. Gray explains how the decline of unstructured play has contributed to rising anxiety, depression, and stress among children and teens.
The conversation explores how childhood has changed, why modern education often prioritizes structure over development, and how play teaches resilience, self-regulation, and responsibility in ways no classroom can replicate. Dr. Gray also shares insights from his work with alternative education models and his advocacy through the Let Grow organization.
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This episode offers parents a hopeful and research-backed perspective on raising children who are emotionally strong, capable, and prepared for life.
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